I have never tried to analyse why, I always notice bigger girls more than thin girls and I find them very very sexy. His cousin, also white, likes a girl with a BIG butt. The extra 10-15 lbs we women think we need to lose, most guys don't care about.
Sunday, January 07, 2007, PM I think that if a man can look past the physical things and when he falls for her he will be just as attracted to her as he would a skinnier woman. I wanna lose 15, the bf likes me just the way I am.
It's all about what is on the inside that makes people sexy. As a result, the rest of the woman is usually on the larger size too, and he's totally fine with that if she's got a big rack. And most of my life I've always been curvy/voluptuous, and I've NEVER had a problem getting male attention.
Sunday, January 07, 2007, PM My buddy likes BIg boobs. Sunday, January 07, 2007, PM all you have to do is l;ook at the dating sites for BBW and you will see there are all kinds and all colors of men who love BIG women .there are some FINE men on those sites.let hollywood fool you.live in the REAL world Sunday, January 07, 2007, PM well-while i definitely have gotten more attention now that i'm slimme,r when i weighed a lot more-there absolutely were men who were attracted to me.
One of my best friends is probably about 50 pounds overweight and she gets a lot of attention from guys, especially black and Latin men.
But socially, it is not really accepted among men so they hide it.In fact one of them is a friend of mine and he flat out stated that he preferred a woman who (and I remember almost exactly what he said because it wowed me so much considering the types of girls he always dates lol) said "If it were up to me I'd rather have a woman who's a size 18 and comfortable with herself than one who is a size 6 and always obsessing about her weight." So maybe it's as much about self confidence for some men as it is about the weight issue.I think everyone has their specific likes and dislikes; it's not wrong or right..just is. What about the song about a big butt woman1 everyone has differnt taste.Plus, just because you are heavy doesn't mean you are suddenly not beautiful.I know plenty of absolutely gorgeous women that are also overweight, and most men still notice that beauty regardless of their heaviness.
Having said that, don't take that to mean that men are shallow pigs.