Even for people who profess “all love, bliss for the world, we are one,” it is acceptable to be repelled by some or have conflict with others. There is nothing inherently wrong with this even if a sweet talking SNAG (Single New Age Girl/ Guy) tells you otherwise.We cannot be attracted to every single person we meet and depending on beliefs you will end up dating only one partner. Have you noticed that “new age girls and guys’ spiritual speak” is becoming exceptionally suave?It is universal karma if you find yourself on a date with a person you are not attracted to, and it is unlikely to have a desirable outcome for both parties.Say, for example, you have been holding out dating to meet the “right one,” you are bored, you are doing the online dating thing (completely admirable) or you believe you are hanging out with friends and find yourself left alone with a person who pounces.A crime when wooing us unsuspecting, loving, hopefully, open-hearted souls.
While dating, it is important to keep the aspect of divine soul connection and play intact during the discovery phase.Do Date someone who asks questions showing great interest in you, while showing appropriate boundaries revealing select, relevant parts of themselves at the right moment.All spiritually inclined people are shaped by their colorful past.While teaching a Japa Meditation/Mala Making Workshop in Thailand this spring, a couple joined my class for a pre-wedding activity. If you think it is not possible then it is not: you have the power to create your reality. No offense, I love my home country but I live where and how I live for a reason and it is paying off.Marrying the following week, the bride wanted her groom to make her a mala necklace while they simultaneously learned to meditate. Lesson #6 Be yourself and the person you are meant to be with will find you. Don’t Be someone you are not, alter your path or live someone you do not want to live in hopes of meeting your soulmate. I meet souls on similar paths to me routinely, worthy of dating.
In doing so, the process of hearing a person’s stories will naturally unravel over time; like a shiny new present opened at the right moment.